Filming a sexy video with your significant other might have been a long time coming. Maybe you've discussed it before but never at length, or you both hinted at it but never acted on it.
A sexy home video is a step up from verbal flirtation and regular sex. It's a way of letting your sex friend or partner know that you're present, horny, and ready to act on the feeling immediately but with a camera present.
Sexy home videos show how comfortable you and your partner are. They also act as a reminder of the good time you had while filming if you're thinking of keeping the tape. The best part about making sexy home videos is that they don't have to be perfect, and you'll be amazed by what you can do with some natural lighting and a good phone camera. Homemade sex tapes might take a while to put together and execute, but the end result is worth all the trouble.
The Do's and Don'ts of Making A Sexy Home Video
Making a home video might seem like an excellent idea. You want to document you and your partner getting your freak on. However, you need to know some dos and don'ts before hitting the record button. Below are the things you need to keep in mind.
Set Some Rules
Before you and your partner discuss the lighting and positions to try out, you both need to have a serious conversation about privacy. Discuss how you or they intend to use the tape after making it. Do you both intend to show your faces, or will one carry the burden with the other's being obscured? Is it meant to be a private moment between you two, or are you both open to sharing with others?
It's always advisable to delete it after watching it. After all, you can always make more later and in an advanced manner than before. Even if you and your significant other are head over heels in love with one another and you think they may never do anything to hurt you, taking some precautions should always be your priority.
Set The Scene
Now that the issue of privacy is out of the way, it's time to get creative. Do you want your video to tell a story, or do you just want to have a video of you having sex on camera? Will there be any form of roleplay? Will there be costumes involved? And do any of you have any kinks you want to explore through the video? It doesn't need to be professional, but setting the scene might help you get more out of your video-making experience.
Get The Supplies Ready
Great filmmaking entails building suspense. Ensure you both have everything you need at hand to avoid rushing off mid-recording to get the items you need. You can start with your cutest pair of bras and panties- they don't even have to match or be expensive. Throw on some thigh-high stockings for that extra sexy touch and to draw attention to your beautiful legs. The stockings will also make for a pleasant experience when it's time for your partner to take them off.
If you have sex toys, now is the time to bring them out. You don't need to have a lot of sex toys to enjoy your filmmaking. A good vibrator and some scented lube from Lube Life can go a long way in allowing you to feel free and enjoy every moment without worrying about friction during the act.
Allow Yourself to Enjoy The Experience
It's natural to feel self-conscious about yourself on camera, especially if you're doing it for the first time. It's wise to try and focus more on the present and how your body feels during sex and less on how you look, and your O-face will look much better.
If you still need extra help getting in the mood, you can use sexy mood lighting and good music to make you feel more relaxed. The best performance will come when you're acting natural and not trying to look for a perfect pout or pose.
If you're not up for it or you feel pressured by your partner to make a sexy home video, talk to them about it. Tell them you don't feel comfortable filming yourselves getting it on. Otherwise, the experience won't be pleasant for you or them.
It's also important to remember that you're not a pornstar. So both of you don't need to try insane positions or make unnecessary sounds to prove you're having fun. Remember to let it come organically, and you'll enjoy it even more.
Film In Areas With Clutter
Areas with clutter tend to pull focus from the action. Therefore, wherever you decide to make your sexual masterpiece from- be it in the living room or bedroom- needs to be clutter-free. You also need to find a space where you can have some uninterrupted time together sans distractions. This goes for those who have pets or even children.
Ensure the area is clean and simple. You want your partner to focus on you, and your body and not the stray sock or empty bottle of Lube Life flavored lubricant at the corner of your bed. If you're going for a backdrop, go for a simple one to avoid any distractions. If you're perennially messy, you can use a retouching app to blur out anything you wouldn't want to appear in your video.
Use Bright Light
Bright lights tend to be harsh and can create shadows in unflattering areas. Bright lights will emphasize any areas of your body that you may prefer to leave out, for example, eye bags or bumps. If you're looking to shoot in natural light- which is ideal- you can film either at the beginning of the day or late in the afternoon for that sun-kissed effect. It's also a good idea to avoid using flash when taking photos as it may make you look weird and two-dimensional.