6 Lesbian Sex Positions (And Some Sexy Songs To Go With Them)

6 Lesbian Sex Positions (And Some Sexy Songs To Go With Them)

  By Betty Knowles

There’s a lot to get excited about this summer – namely all the fun AF adventures you can be having. And though we’d like to think that having the best lesbian sex ever is something that just comes naturally, we also know there’s a lot of misinformation out there when it comes to the best lesbian sex positions. 

Are you feeling overwhelmed, like you don’t know where to begin, or just feeling the joy-frazzle that comes with too many exciting things - Pride, summer sex, traveling adventures - we have you covered. Check out these best lesbian sex positions to try this summer… and some sweet songs to go with them! 

“It’s a guide and a mood...” – You’re Welcome 

Ride that Cowgirl to “Feel Me” by Janelle Monáe 

From the singer’s Dirty Computer album, the celebration song has Janelle Monáe using her rich, warm voice to articulate her feelings for a special someone. She said herself she wants people to feel free when they hear it and hopes they feel celebrated.   

After getting questions about her own sexuality at the start of her career, Monáe came out as pansexual in 2018. Appropriately, the video for this song sees her dancing sensually with both a man and a woman. She’s quoted as saying she considers herself a “free-ass motherf*cker,” and “Feel Me” drives that message home.  

With this particular track, try a classic cowgirl position, with one partner lying down and the other seated on top. You can look each other in the eye while grinding your hips together, as your hands are free to roam across your partner’s body or your own. Vary the position by playing with restraints, or use a dildo for penetration. 

On a Mission(ary) to the tune of “Honey” by Kehlani 

This one has a raw pureness to it. This stripped-down acoustic offering describes the singer’s adoration for her female lover. Kehlani croons, “All the pretty girls in the world, but I’m in this space with you.” 

“Honey” is part of a wave of recent songs released by performers embracing their sexuality and expressing themselves in their music. Kehlani, who is openly queer, wanted her music to start representing her actual life – including this ode to her lover. The acoustic version gives the song an added level of vulnerability and almost makes you feel like you’re doing something really naughty by peeking into the singer’s life. 

The sexual position that works best with this song? Missionary.  

I know, I know – It gets a bad rap as the most boring sex position, but it’s really one of the most intimate. Practically every inch of your naked bodies can be pressed together, and you can enjoy your lover’s warm breath on your neck or lips as they move in for a kiss.  

If you still can’t seem to get past the thought that missionary is too tame, prop a wedge pillow under your lover’s hips. This will allow you to penetrate your lover’s vagina with your fingers and use the come hither motion to stimulate the G-spot.   

Get that “Body” from Behind with Music by Leon 

 I keep thinking ‘bout your body 

I keep dreaming ‘bout your body 

‘Cause there’s nobody else quite like you 

Are you thinking ‘bout my body, body too? 

Swedish singer/songwriter Leon has quite a few sensual songs in her catalog, but “Body” is one of her best – an achingly beautiful sad song with a deceptively bright melody. Leon doesn’t pull any punches with her lyrics – which is great because sometimes a tough moment calls for something a little less refined, a little rough around the edges.  

Get that “Body” from behind – have your partner get on all fours in front of you. If they need a little support to hold the position, use pillows underneath their stomach or have them lean over a chair, counter, or table. This gives you access to their hind quarters in addition to their vulva and vagina. Spank that ass with your hand. You can also reach around to stimulate the clitoris and pinch or tug on the nipples. Are you thinking ‘bout that body now..? 

Easy: 69 to “Cherry” by Fletcher (featuring Hayley Kiyoko) 

“Cherry” is a truly bangin song to bang to. Young gay icons Fletcher and Hayley Kiyoko join up for this to-the-point, perfectly perfect song. Their flirting in the song is sure to get you caught up and invested in the outcome, hoping their seductive and sultry voices and that energetic beat ends with them writhing around together – and if it helps you get in the same entanglement of limbs with the person of your choice, even better! 

As Fletcher herself said: “It’s a moment for the girls, gays, and they!” We couldn’t agree more. 

For this song, it’s easy – GET ON TOP, but kick it up a notch with the 69 position.  

Be a Queen to “Pussy Is God” by King Princess 

There’s no pussyfooting around on this entry, and King Princess gets right to the point: “Your pussy is God and I love it/Gonna kiss me real hard, make me want it.” 

The confidence with which she delivers those lyrics is impressive, and the music itself is simultaneously like every pop song you have ever heard… and nothing you have ever heard. It will stick in your head and your soul, and before you know it you are wandering around repeating, “Your pussy is God and I love it!” Yes, this can make dirty talk so fun! 

The pairing of choice here obviously is queening, also known as face sitting.  

Let your partner worship you while you control the pressure and movement by grinding your hips to get the stimulation you want. This is basically the cowgirl position (reverse or conventional) over your lover’s face. Grind away! 

“Keep On Coming” as you Scissor to Gia Woods 

Gia Woods penned this ethereal and dreamy song about a specific person, someone she’s not formally met but repeatedly bumped into. It’s written like the listeners are supposed to know the person and that’s what makes it so enticing.  

The chorus boasts a club feel, making it great to grind to. And the video for the song only adds to its appeal! It starts with Woods in a pajama set lounging in bed, singing to the camera. As the song builds to the chorus, she soon gets up and starts dancing amid disco lights, and eventually ends with syrup drizzled on Woods’ face as she stares directly at the camera. Tell us you’re not dying to lick it off. 

This song is one that deserves to be enjoyed with a lesbain sex classict: scissoring. One person lies on their side, while the other straddles their leg, so you can grind their clits together. Let the music guide you as you grind and simultaneously use your hands, tongues, toes, or whatever to explore other erogenous zones. 

If we’re being honest, all lesbian sex positions are great. Also, all these songs work for having lesbian sexytime fun. Take a piece of inspiration, and go out and own you Summer 2022 adventures – however that looks for you! 


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