Let’s face it, 2020 was a mess. From social distancing to all travel plans being canceled, 2021 could not come soon enough. One area of most people’s lives that suffered was sexually. With fears of an unknown virus at an all-time high, even being in the same area as someone else elicited panic.
Now that we’re in 2021, I’m here to tell you that things are looking up. In December of the year that shall not be named, Saturn and Jupiter moved from the Earth sign Capricorn to the air sign Aquarius. Saturn and Jupiter are the planets most associated with changes in social norms, trends, and politics.
When it comes to love, the era of Aquarius is sure to rock your world. You’ll begin to feel braver when asking for what you want and exactly how you want it. If Aquarius could be summed up in one word, it is “clarity”. While 2020 left everyone feeling like the ground was shifting under them, 2021 is the year of rectification.
Nowhere says rectification like the bedroom. Ready to learn more about what the future holds for your sex life this year? Continue below
Jan 20 - Feb 18
Deep, imaginative, and completely original, the beginning months of the year will be your time to get things going. This is your year to not only ask for what you want but make it happen in the bedroom. In order to get the most out of your sexual experiences, think outside the box and see what happens. Being meek and silent will do nothing but hold you back. Let your uncompromising attitude and approach to life take the wheel. Never think that anything is off limits and you’ll find yourself having the strongest orgasms of your life.
Feb 19 - Mar 20
This is a very interesting year for those who are a Pisces. While you are affectionate, wise, and empathetic, you’ll find yourself wanting intimacy and time alone at the same time. Sex for you is about having that powerful connection with someone and even though you may find it, this year will be about finding yourself. Through this journey of self-discovery, you’ll gain a deeper understanding of what you want. Although you may have settled in the past, this year is about having sex that leaves you feeling your best and valued.
Mar 21 - Apr 19
As someone that is eager and competitive, 2021 is going to be your year. Your sex life is going to be a free for all and anyone that stands in your way may end up feeling your wrath. You’ll choose abundance and frequency as your main goals of this year. So, if that means taking a trip abroad to have a fling with a local or using a dating app, you’ll exhaust all possibilities to get your reps in. During the week of your birthday, sex will feel especially sublime as you take time to feel every emotion and not shy away from anything. Although normally verbal in the bedroom, you’ll be more open to exploring your partner without the use of words.
Apr 20 - May 20
As a naturally sensual sign, you’ll tap into all of your sensuality in 2021. During the beginning months of year, orgasms will come to you easily. You’ll feel compelled to amp up your sexual experiences by finding partners that are experienced and know what they’re doing. This is the year to stand strong in your convictions and stop compromising. If the person you’re with is not totally satisfying you in the bedroom, it is time to move on. You’ll take a more selfish approach to your bedroom goals and reap the rewards.
May 21 - Jun 20
This is the year to let your curious nature take over. Although you may have been a little conservative in the past, now is the time to explore and widen the profile of possible suitors. Versatile and always changing, you may find yourself attracted to different things depending on the person. In one partner, intellect may be the most important thing while a sense of humor may be the most important in another. You may find yourself a little more indecisive than usual this year, but rest assured that when you do find your footing, the sex will be spectacular.
Jun 21 - Jul 22
A sign that is very in tune with your emotions, you will find it hard to have sex without building an emotional attachment. Instead of running away from that, embrace your intensity. You’ll look to find someone who matches that intensity and understands what being with a sentimental person entails. Once you feel that intense connection with someone, you will unleash your inner naughtiness and leave your partner breathless. This year is about accepting who you are and not settling until your emotions are reciprocated.
Jul 23 - Aug 22
Your self-assured and outgoing personality is going to work wonders for you this year. As the year progresses, you will find value in taking your time and picking sexual partners that value all aspects of what you bring to the table. Although an innocent hookup may happen here and there, this year is about you stepping into who you are and finding someone that matches your fiery personality. You’ll be open to outdoor sex adventures and role playing. The sky is not the limit when it comes to your imagination.
Aug 23 - Sep 22
As someone who is the perfect balance of analytical and practical, you will spend 2021 looking for that deep connection. One night stands and hookups are ideas that you’ve had in the past, but it is never something that spoke to your character. You will take chances and look outside your comfort zone for partners that match your spiritual energy. Once you have that connection with a partner, your horniness levels will rise astronomically. Although someone many can easily underestimate, you’ll show your sexual intensity in ways that will even surprise you.
Sep 23 - Oct 22
Although characterized as diplomatic, gracious, and balanced, this is the year to get a little wild. Instead of overthinking things or caring about the opinions of others, you’ll find yourself acting more on impulse. These impulses may lead to incredible sexual experiences. As an open-minded sign, the idea of polyamory has crossed your mind before but this year, you may finally act on that curiosity. In the bedroom, you’ll be more open to exploring and going with the flow. Letting go of control will lead to magical experiences.
Oct 23 - Nov 21
This is the year of pleasure. A passionate and resourceful sign, Scorpios will explore all their options and not shut the door on anything. You will easily adapt yourself to all kinds of situations and take charge of your sexual pleasure. This pleasure can be with a partner or on your own. You’ll continue to explore sex until you figure out what makes you tick. After that discovery, any current, past, or future partner is a free for all. Make sure to be careful of who you focus your energy on. In your journey of pleasure, you may attract those who are only in it for an easy fix. Continue learning more about yourself and the right person will follow.
Nov 22 - Dec 21
As someone who is optimistic and extroverted, this is the year for you to let your guard down and explore your vulnerable side. Although it may be intimidating to become vulnerable, those moments are when you will feel the most fulfilled sexually. If you’re single, this is the year to explore many sexual partners to better understand what you like and won’t stand for. Through this process, you may end the year being more selective about your preferences. For Sagittarius’ with a partner, be more vocal about your needs and be open to exploration.
Dec 22 - Jan 19
Disciplined and tenacious, 2021 is the year to get crazy. While you may have put off your sexual desires to focus on work, you will find the fun in having a healthy sex life. Through this new attitude, you’ll seek out thrilling and exciting opportunities in the bedroom. Whether trying out new sexual positions or exploring interesting kinks, nothing is off the table. This year is about recapturing and exploring the fun side of life.